You're the boss, so act accordingly 👈

Hi girlfriend,

Have you ever noticed how what consumes our focus today might not even cross our minds years down the line? It's incredible how our lives evolve and transform, sometimes unexpectedly.

I remember when I was engaged and living a life I was sure was the one I wanted. I made sacrifices, commuting long hours to make it all work. But then, one day, it hit me—it wasn't the life I envisioned. It was a painful realization that involved tears and stress and my parents coming to save me, but here I am now, thinking about those days, something that hasn't happened in a decade.

Why am I bringing this up? Because it's a testament to the power of change. What seems overwhelming or impossible today might fade into insignificance in the grand scheme of your life. It's a reminder that life is a series of phases, and what you're facing now will eventually pass.

If you're feeling overwhelmed or stressed, I encourage you to step back and breathe. Remind yourself that this moment is temporary. And if you need more time to be content with where you are, remember: you can change it.

Have you ever considered what truly matters to you? Imagine the life you aspire to and compare it to your current reality. What aspects of your present situation do you find dissatisfying or unfulfilling?

Make two lists: one of your dream life - how you would wake up and spend your time if you could do what you wanted. And a list of your current life - how are you spending your time now? How did it feel to write that list?

Look at those two lists. Is there a big or small distance from where you currently are to where you want to be? What are the parts you want to change? This exercise can clarify what's truly important to you and highlight areas that need attention or transformation.

Today is an opportunity to initiate change. Start by taking small steps toward aligning your reality with your goals. Whether setting new daily habits, altering your routines, or simply making time for activities that bring you joy, EVERY step counts towards shaping your dream life.

Begin this journey today, and watch how you can lead a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life.

Happy holidays. 💝

Love you. Gotta go. Bye.

xoxo

Tamara