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Discover Your Confidence Style π
and look good doing it π
Even though school is out for the summer, you have a POP QUIZ! I promise you canβt fail, and youβll learn about your unique confidence style (yes, shopping is involved)! πβ¨
Start by answering a, b, c, d, or e:
1οΈβ£ When faced with a new challenge, do you: a) Dive right in and embrace it head-on! π₯ b) Strive for perfection and meticulously plan every step. π c) Look at how others have tackled similar challenges for guidance. π€ d) Feel hesitant but push yourself to step out of your comfort zone. π e) Struggle with self-doubt but are determined to grow and overcome it. π±
2οΈβ£ How do you handle setbacks or failures?: a) See them as opportunities for growth and learning. π b) Analyze every detail to figure out what went wrong. π c) Compare yourself to others who have succeeded. βοΈ d) Use them as motivation to try again with a new approach. π― e) Struggle with self-worth and negative self-talk afterward. π
3οΈβ£ When pursuing your goals, you: a) Take bold action and embrace challenges with enthusiasm. π b) Set high standards for yourself and meticulously plan each step. π c) Compare yourself to others to gauge your progress. π d) Feel hesitant but push yourself to take small steps forward. πββοΈ e) Struggle with self-doubt but continue to work on building your confidence. πͺ
4οΈβ£ How do you handle criticism or judgment from others?: a) Brush it off and stay true to yourself. π b) Take it to heart and strive to improve even more. πͺ c) Compare yourself to others and feel discouraged. π d) Reflect on it and use it as an opportunity for growth. π± e) Struggle with self-worth and internalize the criticism. π
5οΈβ£ Which statement resonates with you the most?: a) "I believe in my abilities and embrace challenges fearlessly!" π« b) "I strive for perfection and set high expectations for myself." π c) "I often compare myself to others and feel inadequate." π d) "I push past my comfort zone and take action despite my fears." π e) "I struggle with self-doubt but am committed to personal growth." π»
Now, tally up your answers and discover your confidence style below and what you can work on. How did you do? (you can reply to this email) I got all aβs. Remember, there is no "best" score. π
Mostly aβs: Empowered Action-Taker: π₯ These individuals already exhibit strong confidence and a proactive approach to pursuing their goals. They can continue to enhance their confidence by maintaining a growth mindset, setting challenging but achievable goals, and seeking continuous personal and professional development. π
Mostly bβs: Perfectionist Seeker: πΈ Individuals in this category tend to place high expectations on themselves and may fear making mistakes. To cultivate confidence, they can work on embracing imperfections, reframing failure as a learning opportunity, and practicing self-compassion and self-acceptance. πΌ
Mostly cβs: Comparison Conqueror: π Those who struggle with comparison and external validation can build inner confidence by practicing gratitude, developing self-awareness, setting boundaries with social media, and redirecting energy toward personal growth rather than comparison. π
Mostly dβs: Resilient Overcomer: π» Individuals who have faced setbacks or trauma but continue to persevere can build confidence by acknowledging their strength and resilience. They can benefit from seeking support through therapy or coaching, reframing their past experiences, and practicing self-care and self-love. π
Mostly Eβs: Self-Worth Cultivator: π Those who struggle with low self-worth and negative self-talk can prioritize building a foundation of self-love and self-acceptance. This may involve working on mindset shifts, practicing positive affirmations, surrounding themselves with supportive individuals, and seeking guidance. πΊ
And since we're talking about confidence styleβ¦
I've been OBSESSED with the Tory Burch Foundation, which supports female entrepreneurs. I've attended the NYC Summits for years, built relationships with their team, and confidence coached their fellows. π I'm also OBSESSED with Tory's Sport line, a classic, fresh look for taking action (or even when you're not). π
I'm just gonna put these right here (you may recognize my wardrobe). π
Love you. Gotta go. Bye! Happy Shopping!
xoxo
Tamara