How to Create the Life You Dream About 🤔

The day after I leaped, and like, I mean LITERAL leap, I got this DM from a woman who follows me on IG, which changed our lives:

Maybe what she didn't realize is that I was SCARED SHITLESS to jump. 😳 It took me about 20 minutes to build up the courage. To go through the entire list of reasons why I couldn't. It was too high. I was too old. My bathing suit would break open. Something terrible was definitely going to happen. Endless excuses. I stood on the railing for an eternity.

And then I did. And it was nothing like all the worries running through my head. A shark didn't eat me. My swimsuit was still on. I was alive. All of my excuses were excuses. I was just scared.

And it was a moment in my life I'll never forget. It was a thrill not because of the jump but the ramifications - its effects on my LIFE.

I was so stuck in the moment all I could think about was the challenge in front of me. But I needed to think about everything that could happen after I took that chance.

And to make a long story short (watch it here), I did it again. And this time, I didn't wait so long. This time, it wasn't as scary (who am I kidding 😅).

I use this experience to remind us to use fear as fuel. 🔥

1. Turn limiting beliefs into opportunities.

2. Turn uncertainty into clarity.

3. Turn inaction into action.

I get how you feel - THINGS ARE SCARY, but it's not enough to imagine doing something about it - you actually have to do it! This is what I coach, and I'm living proof that it works! 🙋‍♀️

After I got the DM from that woman, I hired a coach for myself. I hired another coach to learn how to become a coach, and then I started coaching. I FIGURED IT OUT. And I loved it. I was damn good at it too. I have testimonials from women saying I've changed their lives, and their husbands and kids have thanked me.

It's funny - when I started coaching, it was so weird to call myself a coach. I felt more like your girlfriend who would give you a warm hug and then a swift kick in the pants (that's literally how one of my clients described me). I'm, like, in the middle of your real-life bestie and your therapist. I'm not here to tell you it'll be OK. I'm here to help you find a way to make it OK.

If you want - really want - to change your life, don't just sit there waiting for it to happen on its own. Your next journey starts today. You don't have to figure it out alone. The first step is asking for someone to do it with you.

I am now accepting 1:1 calls. So email me back, and let's start turning your fear into fuel! TODAY! 💯

Love you. Gotta jump. Bye. 💦

xoxoxo

Tamara